Moving is such a
difficult thing to do! There is so much to be done and so little time.
These last few weeks seem like a blur. We have packed, moved to the
downstairs of our former parsonage (so they could paint the parsonage),
taken twenty-two youth and a hand full of college students on a mission
trip, said our goodbye’s to a congregation that we loved, and packed and
unpacked a 26 foot moving van in one day. Moving is one of the hardest
things we ever have to do. Yet it is a part of being a United Methodist
minister’s family.
My
family chose to move this year, sometime late last fall. It was a
family decision with Bethany going to High School and Benjamin beginning
Middle School this seemed like the right time. So as a family we began
praying about moving, our next appointment, good schools, taking care of
my mother and going somewhere where God could make a difference through
us. Selwyn and I began looking at churches within forty-five minutes of
my mother’s home, where the pastor had been at his or her church for
four or more years. We looked at four churches, checked out there
websites, drove around each church and earnestly began to pray for God
to lead us to one of the four churches. This all happened in late
December. One December evening we drove over to Pine Grove and parked
around back and prayed in the parking lot. We were not sure if Sylvia
was moving or not, but we prayed anyway.
We continued to
pray and try to discern where God was leading us. Over the next several
months we met with Dr. Hurley Thomas on several occasions. In one of
these meetings, Hurley mentioned that Pine Grove would be coming open in
June. So we prayed fervently about that possibility and on=2 0more than
one occasion asked Hurley to work hard for Pine Grove. After the last
Cabinet meeting, Hurley called all the ministers who were moving in to
tell us where we were going. I was very pleased to be assigned to Pine
Grove United Methodist Church.
Fast forward a
couple months to Mother’s Day, my family was visiting my mother in East
Bend. As we got ready to leave, there was a beautiful double rainbow in
the sky. It was as vivid and beautiful a rainbow as I have ever seen.
It made a perfect half circle, horizon to horizon. Now I believe in
signs from God, the Bible is full of them, with the rainbow being one of
the most recognizable signs of all. The day we moved in at Avery’s
Creek UMC (on the other side of Asheville) we saw a wonderful rainbow
and we had the best five years of ministry we have ever had. When we
moved from there to Milford Hills UMC (in Salisbury) we saw a rainbow
from our moving van. Now once again we see the sign of God’s promise
to always love us and be with us. It truly is hard to move, yet knowing
that God’s promise is here makes moving so much easier.
We look forward
to getting to know each of you! We look forward to doing ministry and
celebrating the promises of God together. May we continually see God
at work in each other, in this Church, and in this community. Our
journey together began with prayer last December… was confirmed by a
rainbow… the possibilities abound…
So the Journey
continues…
Neill